Found one really sad but touching love story from www.datoufen.blogspot.com/
那是一個非常寧靜而美麗的小城﹐有一對非常恩愛的戀人﹐他們每天都去海邊看日出﹐晚上去海邊送夕陽﹐每個見過他們的人都向他們投來羨慕的目光……
可是有一天﹐在一場車禍中﹐女孩不幸受了重傷﹐她靜靜地躺在醫院的病床上﹐幾天幾夜都沒有醒過來。白天﹐男孩就守在床前不停地呼喚毫無知覺的戀人﹔晚上﹐他就跑到小城的教堂裡向上帝禱告﹐他已經哭乾了眼淚。
一個月過去了﹐女孩仍然昏睡著﹐而男孩早已憔悴不堪了﹐但他仍苦苦地支撐著。終於有一天﹐上帝被這個痴情的男孩感動了。於是他決定給這個執著的男孩一個例外。上帝問他﹕“你願意用自己的生命作為交換嗎﹖”男孩毫不猶豫地回答﹕“我願意﹗”上帝說﹕“那好吧﹐我可以讓你的戀人很快醒過來﹐但你要答應化作三年的蜻蜓﹐你願意嗎﹖”男孩聽了﹐還是堅定地回答道﹕“我願意﹗”
天亮了﹐男孩已經變成了一隻漂亮的蜻蜓﹐他告別了上帝便匆匆地飛到了醫院。女孩真的醒了﹐而且她還在跟身旁的一位醫生交談著什麼﹐可惜他聽不到。
幾天後﹐女孩便康復出院了﹐但是她並不快樂。她四處打聽著男孩的下落﹐但沒有人知道男孩究竟去了哪裡。女孩整天不停地尋找著﹐然而早已化身成蜻蜓的男孩卻無時無刻不圍繞在她身邊﹐只是他不會呼喊﹐不會擁抱﹐他只能默默地承受著她的視而不見。夏天過去了﹐秋天的涼風吹落了樹葉﹐蜻蜓不得不離開這裡。於是他最後一次飛落在女孩的肩上。他想用自己的翅膀撫摸她的臉﹐用細小的嘴來親吻她的額頭﹐然而他弱小的身體還是不足以被她發現。
轉眼間﹐春天來了﹐蜻蜓迫不及待地飛回來尋找自己的戀人。然而﹐她那熟悉的身影旁站著一個高大而英俊的男人﹐那一剎那﹐蜻蜓幾乎快從半空中墜落下來。人們講起車禍後女孩病得多麼的嚴重﹐描述著那名男醫生有多麼的善良﹑可愛﹐還描述著他們的愛情有多麼的理所當然﹐當然也描述了女孩已經快樂如從前。
蜻蜓傷心極了﹐在接下來的幾天中﹐他常常會看到那個男人帶著自己的戀人在海邊看日出﹐晚上又在海邊看日落﹐而他自己除了偶爾能停落在她的肩上以外﹐什麼也做不了。
這一年的夏天特別長﹐蜻蜓每天痛苦地低飛著﹐他已經沒有勇氣接近自己昔日的戀人。她和那男人之間的喃喃細語﹐他和她快樂的笑聲﹐都令他窒息。
第三年的夏天﹐蜻蜓已不再常常去看望自己的戀人了。她的肩被男醫生輕擁著﹐臉被男醫生輕輕地吻著﹐根本沒有時間去留意一隻傷心的蜻蜓﹐更沒有心情去懷唸過去。
上帝約定的三年期限很快就要到了。就在最後一天﹐蜻蜓昔日的戀人跟那個男醫生舉行了婚禮。 蜻蜓悄悄地飛進教堂﹐落在上帝的肩膀上﹐他聽到下面的戀人對上帝發誓說﹕我願意﹗他看著那個男醫生把戒指戴到昔日戀人的手上﹐然後看著他們甜蜜地親吻著。蜻蜓流下了傷心的淚水。 上帝嘆息著﹕“你後悔了嗎﹖”蜻蜓擦乾了眼淚﹕“沒有﹗”上帝又帶著一絲愉悅說﹕“那麼﹐明天你就可以變回你自己了。”蜻蜓搖了搖頭﹕“就讓我做一輩子蜻蜓吧……” 有些緣份是註定要失去的。
愛一個人不一定要擁有﹐但擁有一個人就一定要好好去愛他。你的肩上有蜻蜓嗎﹖
Friday, June 29, 2007
Thursday, June 28, 2007
聽媽媽的話
聽媽媽的話
詞:周杰倫 曲:周杰倫
小朋友你是否有很多問號
為什麼 別人在那看漫畫 我卻在學畫畫 對著鋼琴說話
別人在玩遊戲 我卻靠在牆壁背我的ABC
我說我要一個大大的飛機 但卻得到一台舊舊錄音機
為什麼要聽媽媽的話 長大後你就會開始懂了這段話
長大後我開始明白 為什麼我跑得比別人快 飛得比別人高
將來大家看的都是我畫的漫畫 大家唱的都是我寫的歌
媽媽的辛苦不讓你看見 溫暖的食譜在她心裡面
有空就多多握握她的手 把手牽著一起夢遊
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
美麗的白髮 幸福中發芽 天使的魔法 溫暖中慈祥
在你的未來 音樂是你的王牌 拿王牌談個戀愛
唉! 我不想把你教壞 還是聽媽媽的話吧 晚點再戀愛吧
我知道你未來的路 但媽比我更清楚
你會開始學其他同學在書包寫東寫西 但我建議最好寫媽媽我會用功讀書
用功讀書 怎麼會從我嘴巴說出 不想你輸 所以要叫你用功讀書
媽媽織給你的毛衣 你要好好的收著 因為母親節到時 我要告訴她我還留著
對了 我會遇到周潤發 所以你可以跟同學炫耀賭神未來是你爸爸
我找不到童年寫的情書 你寫完不要送人 因為過兩天你會在操場上撿到
你會開始喜歡上流行歌 因為張學友開始準備唱吻別
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
美麗的白髮 幸福中發芽 天使的魔法 溫暖中慈祥
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
長大後我開始明白 為什麼我跑得比別人快 飛得比別人高
將來大家看的都是我畫的漫畫 大家唱的都是我寫的歌
媽媽的辛苦不讓你看見 溫暖的食譜在她心裡面
有空就多多握握她的手 把手牽著一起夢遊
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
美麗的白髮 幸福中發芽 天使的魔法 溫暖中慈祥
詞:周杰倫 曲:周杰倫
小朋友你是否有很多問號
為什麼 別人在那看漫畫 我卻在學畫畫 對著鋼琴說話
別人在玩遊戲 我卻靠在牆壁背我的ABC
我說我要一個大大的飛機 但卻得到一台舊舊錄音機
為什麼要聽媽媽的話 長大後你就會開始懂了這段話
長大後我開始明白 為什麼我跑得比別人快 飛得比別人高
將來大家看的都是我畫的漫畫 大家唱的都是我寫的歌
媽媽的辛苦不讓你看見 溫暖的食譜在她心裡面
有空就多多握握她的手 把手牽著一起夢遊
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
美麗的白髮 幸福中發芽 天使的魔法 溫暖中慈祥
在你的未來 音樂是你的王牌 拿王牌談個戀愛
唉! 我不想把你教壞 還是聽媽媽的話吧 晚點再戀愛吧
我知道你未來的路 但媽比我更清楚
你會開始學其他同學在書包寫東寫西 但我建議最好寫媽媽我會用功讀書
用功讀書 怎麼會從我嘴巴說出 不想你輸 所以要叫你用功讀書
媽媽織給你的毛衣 你要好好的收著 因為母親節到時 我要告訴她我還留著
對了 我會遇到周潤發 所以你可以跟同學炫耀賭神未來是你爸爸
我找不到童年寫的情書 你寫完不要送人 因為過兩天你會在操場上撿到
你會開始喜歡上流行歌 因為張學友開始準備唱吻別
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
美麗的白髮 幸福中發芽 天使的魔法 溫暖中慈祥
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
長大後我開始明白 為什麼我跑得比別人快 飛得比別人高
將來大家看的都是我畫的漫畫 大家唱的都是我寫的歌
媽媽的辛苦不讓你看見 溫暖的食譜在她心裡面
有空就多多握握她的手 把手牽著一起夢遊
聽媽媽的話 別讓她受傷 想快快長大 才能保護她
美麗的白髮 幸福中發芽 天使的魔法 溫暖中慈祥
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Remember those Good old days... This only apply in Singapore
This would brings back fond memories for some.....
50 things, Singaporeans aged 20+ would identify with.
1. You grew up watching He-man, Transformers, Silverhawk, Ultraman, Super Friends, Woody WoodPecker, Tom & Jerry, Care Bears, My Little Pony, Smurf and Mickey Mouse. Not to forget, maybe Ninja turtles too.
2. You grew up brushing your teeth with a mug in primary school during recess time. You will squat by a drain with all your classmates beside you,and brush your teeth with a coloured mug. The teachers said you must brush each side 10 times too.
3.You know what SBC stands for.
4. You know what it means by the Centrepoint Kids, breakdance etc.
5. You were there when the first chinese serial, the Awakening was shown on TV.
6. Internet? What the hell is that? So you thought a decade or more ago.
7. You find your friends with pagers and handphone cool in secondary school.
8. SBS buses used to be non-airconditioned. The bus seats were made of wood and the cushion was red. The big red bell gave a loud BEEEP! when pressed. There were colourful tickets for CSS buses. The conductor will check for tickets by using a machine which punches a hole on the ticket. All SBS buses used to be manually operated, with a huge gigantic gearstick to the left of the driver.
9. Your favourite actor and actress were Huang Wenyong and Xiangyun. Next were Li Nanxing and Zoe Tay and the Aiyoyo woman (Chen Liping).
10. You've probably read Young Generation magazine. You know who's Vinny the little vampire and Acai the constable.
11. You were there when they first introduced MRT here (Yio Chu Kang to Toa Payoh). You went for the first ride with your parents and you would kneel on the seat to see the scenery.
12. Movie tickets used to cost only $3.50. Tickets were scrawled across using big red pencils. Ushers brought you into the cinemas using big metallic torchlights.
13. Gals were fascinated by Strawberry Short Cake and Barbie Dolls. You also collected Care Bears stickers, trying to complete the impossible task of filling up the sticker book.
14. You remember some taxis were green in colour. Taxis had gearsticks behind the steering wheel, with a transparent knob and little colourful flowers inside the knobs.
15. You longed to buy tibits called Kaka(20 cents per pack), and Ding Dang(50 cents per box), that had a toy in it and it changes every week not forgetting the 15 cents animal crackers and the ringpop, where thelollipop is the diamond on the ring.
16. You watched TV2(also known as Channel 10) cartoons because Channel 5 never had enough cartoons for you.
17. All that you know about Cantonese is from the Hong Kong serials you watched on TV2. In "Man in the Net", you watched Ah Chan eat 20 hamburgers.
18. You grew up reading ladybird books "READ IT YOURSELF". Hardy Boys, Nancy Drew, The Three Investigators, Famous Five and Secret Seven were probably the thickest story books you ever thought you had. Even SweetValley High and Malory Towers. You also love Enid Blyton's Enchanted Wood, Magic Faraway tree...
19. Civics and Moral Education was "Hao(3) Gong(1) Min(2)".
20. KFC used to be a high class place and let you use metal forks and knives.
21. The most vulgar thing you said was asshole and idiot and...you just couldn't bring yourself to say the hokkien relative.
22. Catching was the IN thing (aka Police and Thief) and twist or "choap" was the magic word.
23. Your English workbooks was made of some damn poor quality paper that was smooth and yellow.
24. Some part of your school was ALWAYS haunted, like the toilet or clock tower or a certain block. You walk fast to avoid them.
25. The only computer lessons in school involved funny pixellised characters in 16 colours walking about trying to teach you maths. You printed with noisy dot matrix printers and use computer papers with two rows of holes at the sides. Mouse? What's that?
26. Waterbottles, with your favourite cartoon character on it,were slinged around your neck and a must everywhere you go.
27. Boys loved to play soccer with small tennis balls in the basketball court.
28. Hopskotch, five stones,chateh and zero point were all the rage with the girls and boys too... Remember 5 times, highest, one-inch...
29. Science was fun with the balsam and the angsana being the most important plants of our lives.
30. Who could forget Ahmad, Bala, Gopal, Sumei, Peihua and John, eternalised in the textbooks. Even Mr Wolly, Mr Yakki.
31. You did stupid exercises like seal crawl and frog jumps.
32. Every children's day and national day you either get pencils or pens with 'Happy Children's Day 1983' or dumb files with Happy National Day 1984'.
33. In Primary six you had to play buddy for the younger kids like big sister and brother.
34. Chinese teachers were always old, boring and damn fierce looking. Your form teacher taught you Maths, Science and English.
35. The Scouts used to wear shorts, and the NCC uniform was a plain green colour without camouflage.
36. The worksheets were made of brown rough paper of poor quality.
37. You went to school in slippers and a raincoat when it rained,and you find a dry spot in the school to sit and wipe yourself dry. Then you wear your dry and warm socks and shoes.
38. You listened to Xin(1) Yao(2). Remember Eric Moo's Kopi 'O', 'Sunglass'etc?
39. After exams, you brought Game & Watch to school, and play card games like 'Snap' and 'Donkey' and 'Old Maid' and you also play pick up sticks and Snake & Ladder and the aeroplane board game. Either this or you would play those cards comparing aeroplanes, warships, or tanks; who would have more firepower or speed or weight, etc.
40. You remember you uncles, big brothers and father screaming and shouting in front of the TV when the S'pore soccer team (always in blue jerseys) play against the Malaysians.
41. Your friends considered you lucky and rich if your parents gave you $3 or more for pocket money everyday.
42. During class gatherings, parents always tag along in case someone gets lost at Orchard Road.
43. You freak out when the teacher tells you to line up according to height and hold hands with the corresponding boy or girl.
44. Handkerchieves were a must for both genders
45. Collecting notebooks, erasers and all kinds of stationery was a popular thing.
46. Autograph books were loaded with "Best Wishes", "Forget Me Not", and small poems like 'Birds fly high, hard to catch. Friend like you,hard to forget'.
47. Class monitors and prefects loved to say 'You talk somemore, I write your name ah!'
48. You remember songs sung by a huge group of people, like the Chinese "Ming(2) Tian(1) Hui(4) Gen(4) Hao(3)", and the English "We Are The World". In Sec Sch, you listen to Bananarama, Jason Donavan, Kylie Minogue, New Kids on the Block, ABBA, and Tommy Page (Remember 'A Shoulder to Cry On'?)
49. Large, colourful schoolbags were carried. And fanciful pencil cases with lots of small tiny drawers, trays, sharpener or thermometer, that pop out at the push of a button were the 'in' thing.
50. You brought every single book to school, even though there was one thing called the timetable, written on the inside cover of your little blue notebook.
Spread this heart warming message around, you don't get something like very often. Remember, you come from a generation worth remembering.
50 things, Singaporeans aged 20+ would identify with.
1. You grew up watching He-man, Transformers, Silverhawk, Ultraman, Super Friends, Woody WoodPecker, Tom & Jerry, Care Bears, My Little Pony, Smurf and Mickey Mouse. Not to forget, maybe Ninja turtles too.
2. You grew up brushing your teeth with a mug in primary school during recess time. You will squat by a drain with all your classmates beside you,and brush your teeth with a coloured mug. The teachers said you must brush each side 10 times too.
3.You know what SBC stands for.
4. You know what it means by the Centrepoint Kids, breakdance etc.
5. You were there when the first chinese serial, the Awakening was shown on TV.
6. Internet? What the hell is that? So you thought a decade or more ago.
7. You find your friends with pagers and handphone cool in secondary school.
8. SBS buses used to be non-airconditioned. The bus seats were made of wood and the cushion was red. The big red bell gave a loud BEEEP! when pressed. There were colourful tickets for CSS buses. The conductor will check for tickets by using a machine which punches a hole on the ticket. All SBS buses used to be manually operated, with a huge gigantic gearstick to the left of the driver.
9. Your favourite actor and actress were Huang Wenyong and Xiangyun. Next were Li Nanxing and Zoe Tay and the Aiyoyo woman (Chen Liping).
10. You've probably read Young Generation magazine. You know who's Vinny the little vampire and Acai the constable.
11. You were there when they first introduced MRT here (Yio Chu Kang to Toa Payoh). You went for the first ride with your parents and you would kneel on the seat to see the scenery.
12. Movie tickets used to cost only $3.50. Tickets were scrawled across using big red pencils. Ushers brought you into the cinemas using big metallic torchlights.
13. Gals were fascinated by Strawberry Short Cake and Barbie Dolls. You also collected Care Bears stickers, trying to complete the impossible task of filling up the sticker book.
14. You remember some taxis were green in colour. Taxis had gearsticks behind the steering wheel, with a transparent knob and little colourful flowers inside the knobs.
15. You longed to buy tibits called Kaka(20 cents per pack), and Ding Dang(50 cents per box), that had a toy in it and it changes every week not forgetting the 15 cents animal crackers and the ringpop, where thelollipop is the diamond on the ring.
16. You watched TV2(also known as Channel 10) cartoons because Channel 5 never had enough cartoons for you.
17. All that you know about Cantonese is from the Hong Kong serials you watched on TV2. In "Man in the Net", you watched Ah Chan eat 20 hamburgers.
18. You grew up reading ladybird books "READ IT YOURSELF". Hardy Boys, Nancy Drew, The Three Investigators, Famous Five and Secret Seven were probably the thickest story books you ever thought you had. Even SweetValley High and Malory Towers. You also love Enid Blyton's Enchanted Wood, Magic Faraway tree...
19. Civics and Moral Education was "Hao(3) Gong(1) Min(2)".
20. KFC used to be a high class place and let you use metal forks and knives.
21. The most vulgar thing you said was asshole and idiot and...you just couldn't bring yourself to say the hokkien relative.
22. Catching was the IN thing (aka Police and Thief) and twist or "choap" was the magic word.
23. Your English workbooks was made of some damn poor quality paper that was smooth and yellow.
24. Some part of your school was ALWAYS haunted, like the toilet or clock tower or a certain block. You walk fast to avoid them.
25. The only computer lessons in school involved funny pixellised characters in 16 colours walking about trying to teach you maths. You printed with noisy dot matrix printers and use computer papers with two rows of holes at the sides. Mouse? What's that?
26. Waterbottles, with your favourite cartoon character on it,were slinged around your neck and a must everywhere you go.
27. Boys loved to play soccer with small tennis balls in the basketball court.
28. Hopskotch, five stones,chateh and zero point were all the rage with the girls and boys too... Remember 5 times, highest, one-inch...
29. Science was fun with the balsam and the angsana being the most important plants of our lives.
30. Who could forget Ahmad, Bala, Gopal, Sumei, Peihua and John, eternalised in the textbooks. Even Mr Wolly, Mr Yakki.
31. You did stupid exercises like seal crawl and frog jumps.
32. Every children's day and national day you either get pencils or pens with 'Happy Children's Day 1983' or dumb files with Happy National Day 1984'.
33. In Primary six you had to play buddy for the younger kids like big sister and brother.
34. Chinese teachers were always old, boring and damn fierce looking. Your form teacher taught you Maths, Science and English.
35. The Scouts used to wear shorts, and the NCC uniform was a plain green colour without camouflage.
36. The worksheets were made of brown rough paper of poor quality.
37. You went to school in slippers and a raincoat when it rained,and you find a dry spot in the school to sit and wipe yourself dry. Then you wear your dry and warm socks and shoes.
38. You listened to Xin(1) Yao(2). Remember Eric Moo's Kopi 'O', 'Sunglass'etc?
39. After exams, you brought Game & Watch to school, and play card games like 'Snap' and 'Donkey' and 'Old Maid' and you also play pick up sticks and Snake & Ladder and the aeroplane board game. Either this or you would play those cards comparing aeroplanes, warships, or tanks; who would have more firepower or speed or weight, etc.
40. You remember you uncles, big brothers and father screaming and shouting in front of the TV when the S'pore soccer team (always in blue jerseys) play against the Malaysians.
41. Your friends considered you lucky and rich if your parents gave you $3 or more for pocket money everyday.
42. During class gatherings, parents always tag along in case someone gets lost at Orchard Road.
43. You freak out when the teacher tells you to line up according to height and hold hands with the corresponding boy or girl.
44. Handkerchieves were a must for both genders
45. Collecting notebooks, erasers and all kinds of stationery was a popular thing.
46. Autograph books were loaded with "Best Wishes", "Forget Me Not", and small poems like 'Birds fly high, hard to catch. Friend like you,hard to forget'.
47. Class monitors and prefects loved to say 'You talk somemore, I write your name ah!'
48. You remember songs sung by a huge group of people, like the Chinese "Ming(2) Tian(1) Hui(4) Gen(4) Hao(3)", and the English "We Are The World". In Sec Sch, you listen to Bananarama, Jason Donavan, Kylie Minogue, New Kids on the Block, ABBA, and Tommy Page (Remember 'A Shoulder to Cry On'?)
49. Large, colourful schoolbags were carried. And fanciful pencil cases with lots of small tiny drawers, trays, sharpener or thermometer, that pop out at the push of a button were the 'in' thing.
50. You brought every single book to school, even though there was one thing called the timetable, written on the inside cover of your little blue notebook.
Spread this heart warming message around, you don't get something like very often. Remember, you come from a generation worth remembering.
Story of FATE
There was a scholar who was to marry his fiancé, but on the day of marriage, his fiancé changed her mind and married someone else. The scholar was devastated and fell ill. His family seeks all kinds of medical treatment for him, but still he showed no sign of recovery. They were about to give up hope on him when a wandering monk passed by. After learning about the scholar's condition, the monk walked to the scholar's bed and took out a mirror for the dying man to see.In the mirror, the scholar saw a vast ocean, and the naked body of a murdered woman lay on the beach.
A man passed by, looked at the body, shook his head and left.
Another man who passed by saw the body, took off his robes to cover the body and left.
Finally came a man passing by who saw the body, dug a hole and laid the body carefully to rest before burying it.
The scene in the mirror suddenly changed. The scholar saw his fiancé in a nuptial chamber and another man was lifting her wedding veil...
The scholar blinked at the monk, confused.Slowly the monk explained,
"The woman whose body you saw on the beach was your fiancée in her previous life. In your previous life, you were the second man who gave her his robes to cover her body. To repay your kindness in this lifetime, she loved you for a period of time and became your fiancé. However, ultimately the man whose favor she has to return for the rest of her life is the third man who buried her. And that man is now her husband."
Enlightened, the scholar sat up and recovered from his depression.
Are you a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime?
Are you a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime?
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON.
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON...
It is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation... Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life. Stop here and just SMILE. This last part is to show people you love them and to see how many people love you!!!!!! Don't feel embarrassed.
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON.
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON...
It is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation... Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life. Stop here and just SMILE. This last part is to show people you love them and to see how many people love you!!!!!! Don't feel embarrassed.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Something nice to share...
Went through my old collections of cds... found some wonderful lines ... though they are some what sad... but still... it's something meaningful.... Therefore, i decided to share with anyone who reads my blog....
I Just Wanted to Say....
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry for what I've done, and what I haven't done.
I could have done more, I should have done more.
If I harmed you, yelled at you, ignored you, or didn't care...
I'm sorry.
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say
Thank you.
If me and you were the best of friends, thank you for always being there.
If me and you only talked once and a while, and didn't Go to the same parties, and were.... not good friends:
Thank you for humbling me.
You are not perfect, but I am not either, but thank you for having a part in my life.
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say everything I never had time to
Friends and enemies. Even if you know someones screen name, but maybe you don't talk to them that often send it to them, to let them know they have been acknowledged, and someone is thinking of them you never know how much a few kind words can brighten up someone's day!
So go spread the smiles :)
I Just Wanted to Say....
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry for what I've done, and what I haven't done.
I could have done more, I should have done more.
If I harmed you, yelled at you, ignored you, or didn't care...
I'm sorry.
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say
Thank you.
If me and you were the best of friends, thank you for always being there.
If me and you only talked once and a while, and didn't Go to the same parties, and were.... not good friends:
Thank you for humbling me.
You are not perfect, but I am not either, but thank you for having a part in my life.
If tomorrow, I should never wake up, I wanted to say everything I never had time to
Friends and enemies. Even if you know someones screen name, but maybe you don't talk to them that often send it to them, to let them know they have been acknowledged, and someone is thinking of them you never know how much a few kind words can brighten up someone's day!
So go spread the smiles :)
5 Reason why man leave women and the relationship
This is something i got from my junk mail. felt rather interesting... so decided to share it on the blog... do enjoy reading it
Reason #1: The "Pleasure Principle"Men, and women, generally want to FEEL GOOD in their lives. And they want to have the people around them be a source of pleasure and comfort and support. Yourself included. When you are constantly freaking out on a man for what it is about him that freaks you out, you quickly turn into one of the people that it DOESN'T FEEL GOOD to be around. And this has a huge impact on whether or not he wants to invest more time, effort, and energy in you and your relationship. Or if he will decide to give up on trying to fix what's going on with you so you can both feel good together.
Reason #2: Emotional Experience And The FutureFor a man in a relationship, the ways a woman acts in the "little" situations become indicators of how she's going to respond when things really are tough and in the future. So if a woman is consistently negative and emotional... and can't get herself together even when a man tries to explain things and comfort her... then a man isn't going to think that things could be any better in the future together.
Reason #3: Lost Feelings Of AttractionLove can be important to a man. But just like a woman, if he doesn't also keep experiencing the exciting and addictive feelings of CONNECTION and ATTRACTION with the woman he loves... then eventually EVERYTHING ELSE starts to not matter. When a man doesn't FEEL that deep level of connection with a woman, at least every so often to remind him of why he's with her, then he'll forget why... and the relationship will become just a whole bunch of "work" to him. Whenever he thinks of his girlfriend, he'll think of all the problems, frustrations, and negative emotions and experiences... and he'll see a future and a commitment as something that will make him LESS SATISFIED in his life. Often times when women are feeling distance or trouble in a relationship, they'll try to "talk" to a man and work on "the relationship". Big mistake if you want to turn things around. For a man, he wants to do things together (not talk) to know his relationship is working. Creating a deep level of connection and sharing the attraction you have is one of the most powerful and important keys to giving a man his own reason for wanting to be with you, no matter what. If you want to learn the secrets to easily creating or recapturing the intense attraction that will have a man asking you for more attention. It will show you exactly how to get back to sharing intense Physical and Emotional Attraction, and give you the 6 keys to the kind of deep lasting attraction that will keep your relationship moving forward and strong.
Reason #4: The "Neediness" of CodependenceA man wants to be with a woman that brings something better to his life, not take away his time, energy, and emotional "stability". So when a woman doesn't have much going on for herself in her own life a few things happen. First, she focuses on her relationship too much as her source of happiness or unhappiness. You can tell when you've done this in your relationships in the past when you've said things like: "I can't believe how I didn't hardly ever see any of my friends while we were together." ...or "I can't believe I let him control me that way." ...or "I feel so stupid for wasting so much of my time on our relationship, when I could have been doing things for me and my life." The reality is that no man and no relationship is capable of being everything to a woman. And no relationship requires that you sacrifice all your time, life, and energy for it... no matter how much it seems that way. But our relationships can "trick" us into believing that they need all of our time and attention just to survive. Not true. In fact, the way this works is completely COUNTERINTUITIVE. Often times men leave a woman because they see that she depends too much on him and has lost her own sources of happiness... and this not only looks and feels "needy" to a man, but it keeps the woman from having much to bring into the relationship and add to their lives together.
Reason #5: "She's Trying To Fix Me..."Every few weeks or months I come across someone who says or alludes to the idea that "people don't change." Wrong. People often change their state of mind in an instant. Especially from happy to sad. Of course, changing perspectives, opinions, or beliefs can take a bit longer... but these change quickly too. A man can and will "change" and compromise for a woman. It's a fact. I see it all the time where men let go of their "bachelor lifestyles" for one special woman, and change a ton about their social lives. But this only happens when a man has HIS OWNREASONS to change. It NEVER works, or lasts, if a man simply tries to change for a woman, or for the sake of the relationship. There's a rule I like to use in my life when ever I come to a situation where I'm trying to align my own desires or goals with someone else's: "All motivation is self-interest" In other words, if you're trying to create a great situation with a man, you're going to need to understand what HIS REASONS are going to be for doing the work on his end to make it happen. But lots of women try and get a man to change by showing a man how it affects THEM, not him. This is the exact opposite of understanding that people are motivated by the things that THEY WANT, and not what others feel and want. It takes some maturity to accept that other people (men) have their own unique way of seeing things and wanting what they want. (to stay and work things out, or not) But once you learn to accept these things and start to work with them instead of against them, life gets a whole lot easier. And a whole lot more fun.
So those are 5 of the most common reasons and situations about why men leave women and relationships. One of the most important things underlying all these 5 reasons is the EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE that you create with a man. I think of the emotional experience that you share with a man in your relationship as the door through which your relationship will either open up and move forward...Or on the other hand, as the barrier that causes a relationship to stay shut and go nowhere. And I look at COMMITMENT as a man and a woman agreeing to open the door together and walk through it. But the truth is that men don't COMMIT for the same reasons most women do. They don't think about, talk about, or want to walk through the door the same way most women do. That's why the "process" by which most men commit is different. For most women, there's often a kind of tension and resistance built into moving forward in a relationship with a man. And I'm not just talking about the spoken words of that make a commitment... but about the "emotional commitment" a man has inside with you. If a man is deeply committed to you and your relationship on an emotional level, then any "issues" you run into are just going to be "bumps in the road" to him. And he'll be confident, comfortable, open, and secure with you in working them out. But if a man ISN'T "emotionally committed" to you, then each and every little problem is going to cause him to get irritated, frustrated, and have him wanting to blame you and withdraw. Which is, in turn, going to make things much less CERTAIN for you.
Reason #1: The "Pleasure Principle"Men, and women, generally want to FEEL GOOD in their lives. And they want to have the people around them be a source of pleasure and comfort and support. Yourself included. When you are constantly freaking out on a man for what it is about him that freaks you out, you quickly turn into one of the people that it DOESN'T FEEL GOOD to be around. And this has a huge impact on whether or not he wants to invest more time, effort, and energy in you and your relationship. Or if he will decide to give up on trying to fix what's going on with you so you can both feel good together.
Reason #2: Emotional Experience And The FutureFor a man in a relationship, the ways a woman acts in the "little" situations become indicators of how she's going to respond when things really are tough and in the future. So if a woman is consistently negative and emotional... and can't get herself together even when a man tries to explain things and comfort her... then a man isn't going to think that things could be any better in the future together.
Reason #3: Lost Feelings Of AttractionLove can be important to a man. But just like a woman, if he doesn't also keep experiencing the exciting and addictive feelings of CONNECTION and ATTRACTION with the woman he loves... then eventually EVERYTHING ELSE starts to not matter. When a man doesn't FEEL that deep level of connection with a woman, at least every so often to remind him of why he's with her, then he'll forget why... and the relationship will become just a whole bunch of "work" to him. Whenever he thinks of his girlfriend, he'll think of all the problems, frustrations, and negative emotions and experiences... and he'll see a future and a commitment as something that will make him LESS SATISFIED in his life. Often times when women are feeling distance or trouble in a relationship, they'll try to "talk" to a man and work on "the relationship". Big mistake if you want to turn things around. For a man, he wants to do things together (not talk) to know his relationship is working. Creating a deep level of connection and sharing the attraction you have is one of the most powerful and important keys to giving a man his own reason for wanting to be with you, no matter what. If you want to learn the secrets to easily creating or recapturing the intense attraction that will have a man asking you for more attention. It will show you exactly how to get back to sharing intense Physical and Emotional Attraction, and give you the 6 keys to the kind of deep lasting attraction that will keep your relationship moving forward and strong.
Reason #4: The "Neediness" of CodependenceA man wants to be with a woman that brings something better to his life, not take away his time, energy, and emotional "stability". So when a woman doesn't have much going on for herself in her own life a few things happen. First, she focuses on her relationship too much as her source of happiness or unhappiness. You can tell when you've done this in your relationships in the past when you've said things like: "I can't believe how I didn't hardly ever see any of my friends while we were together." ...or "I can't believe I let him control me that way." ...or "I feel so stupid for wasting so much of my time on our relationship, when I could have been doing things for me and my life." The reality is that no man and no relationship is capable of being everything to a woman. And no relationship requires that you sacrifice all your time, life, and energy for it... no matter how much it seems that way. But our relationships can "trick" us into believing that they need all of our time and attention just to survive. Not true. In fact, the way this works is completely COUNTERINTUITIVE. Often times men leave a woman because they see that she depends too much on him and has lost her own sources of happiness... and this not only looks and feels "needy" to a man, but it keeps the woman from having much to bring into the relationship and add to their lives together.
Reason #5: "She's Trying To Fix Me..."Every few weeks or months I come across someone who says or alludes to the idea that "people don't change." Wrong. People often change their state of mind in an instant. Especially from happy to sad. Of course, changing perspectives, opinions, or beliefs can take a bit longer... but these change quickly too. A man can and will "change" and compromise for a woman. It's a fact. I see it all the time where men let go of their "bachelor lifestyles" for one special woman, and change a ton about their social lives. But this only happens when a man has HIS OWNREASONS to change. It NEVER works, or lasts, if a man simply tries to change for a woman, or for the sake of the relationship. There's a rule I like to use in my life when ever I come to a situation where I'm trying to align my own desires or goals with someone else's: "All motivation is self-interest" In other words, if you're trying to create a great situation with a man, you're going to need to understand what HIS REASONS are going to be for doing the work on his end to make it happen. But lots of women try and get a man to change by showing a man how it affects THEM, not him. This is the exact opposite of understanding that people are motivated by the things that THEY WANT, and not what others feel and want. It takes some maturity to accept that other people (men) have their own unique way of seeing things and wanting what they want. (to stay and work things out, or not) But once you learn to accept these things and start to work with them instead of against them, life gets a whole lot easier. And a whole lot more fun.
So those are 5 of the most common reasons and situations about why men leave women and relationships. One of the most important things underlying all these 5 reasons is the EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE that you create with a man. I think of the emotional experience that you share with a man in your relationship as the door through which your relationship will either open up and move forward...Or on the other hand, as the barrier that causes a relationship to stay shut and go nowhere. And I look at COMMITMENT as a man and a woman agreeing to open the door together and walk through it. But the truth is that men don't COMMIT for the same reasons most women do. They don't think about, talk about, or want to walk through the door the same way most women do. That's why the "process" by which most men commit is different. For most women, there's often a kind of tension and resistance built into moving forward in a relationship with a man. And I'm not just talking about the spoken words of that make a commitment... but about the "emotional commitment" a man has inside with you. If a man is deeply committed to you and your relationship on an emotional level, then any "issues" you run into are just going to be "bumps in the road" to him. And he'll be confident, comfortable, open, and secure with you in working them out. But if a man ISN'T "emotionally committed" to you, then each and every little problem is going to cause him to get irritated, frustrated, and have him wanting to blame you and withdraw. Which is, in turn, going to make things much less CERTAIN for you.
Monday, June 25, 2007
A guy/boy who loves u...
The guy who love you, if he can't always see you, he will try to make himself busy, for not to have any time to remember you, because he knew, if he did, he will keep on missing you until he could do nothing.
The guy who loves you, can't tell you the reason why he love you. he only knew that, in his eyes, you are the only one.
The guy who love you, seldom praise you , but in his heart, you are the best, only he know it,The guy who love you, will scold or complaint if you didn’t reply his message but others, because he cares.
The guy who love you, Only drop his tears in front of you, when you try to wipe his tears, you are touching his heart, the heart which beat for you.
The guy who love you, will remember every word u said, even its accidentally. and he will use the word always at the nick of time.
The guy who loves you, will not give any promise that easily, because they don't want to break the promise, they want you to believe him and they want to give you the happiest and safest life ever after.
The guy who love you, always tell you not to think too much, because they already plan it for you, he want to give u the best life in the future, hewant to give you a surprise, believe him that he can do it.
The guy who love you, will go to airport to fetch you, he won't carry a bunch a rose and call you darling like what you expect, but he will carry your luggage and ask you " why are you becoming that thin within two days?" with his sincere heart.
The boy who love you, will listen quietly to you, when you are mad, and when you finished, he will said, you still got class tomorrow, sleep earlier with smile.
The boy who love you, don't know that whether he should call you when you are angry, but he will sent a message to you after few hours, if you ask him why he call that late, he will said, when you are angry, my explanation are all rubbish. But when you calm down, my explanation will only really works.
The boy who love you, always call you little girl, but every time he want to make a big decision, he will first want to hear your advice.
The guy who love you, don't like little toy like teddy bear, but he will always put the bear you gift him at his bed.
The guy who love you, while quarrelling, he will apologize uncontrollably, although you are the one who's wrong, and later, he will sent a message to you with " baby, actually you know its your fault, you know it yourself "
The guy who love you, while really miss you, he will want to buy a bunch of rose and wait you stupidly under your apartment, but he never knows, what he bought is daisy, but doesn't matter, because in his heart, that's roses.
Gals in crush, love, do you think the guy who's beside you do really love you? if yes, wish you have the happiest day ever after.
The guy who loves you, can't tell you the reason why he love you. he only knew that, in his eyes, you are the only one.
The guy who love you, seldom praise you , but in his heart, you are the best, only he know it,The guy who love you, will scold or complaint if you didn’t reply his message but others, because he cares.
The guy who love you, Only drop his tears in front of you, when you try to wipe his tears, you are touching his heart, the heart which beat for you.
The guy who love you, will remember every word u said, even its accidentally. and he will use the word always at the nick of time.
The guy who loves you, will not give any promise that easily, because they don't want to break the promise, they want you to believe him and they want to give you the happiest and safest life ever after.
The guy who love you, always tell you not to think too much, because they already plan it for you, he want to give u the best life in the future, hewant to give you a surprise, believe him that he can do it.
The guy who love you, will go to airport to fetch you, he won't carry a bunch a rose and call you darling like what you expect, but he will carry your luggage and ask you " why are you becoming that thin within two days?" with his sincere heart.
The boy who love you, will listen quietly to you, when you are mad, and when you finished, he will said, you still got class tomorrow, sleep earlier with smile.
The boy who love you, don't know that whether he should call you when you are angry, but he will sent a message to you after few hours, if you ask him why he call that late, he will said, when you are angry, my explanation are all rubbish. But when you calm down, my explanation will only really works.
The boy who love you, always call you little girl, but every time he want to make a big decision, he will first want to hear your advice.
The guy who love you, don't like little toy like teddy bear, but he will always put the bear you gift him at his bed.
The guy who love you, while quarrelling, he will apologize uncontrollably, although you are the one who's wrong, and later, he will sent a message to you with " baby, actually you know its your fault, you know it yourself "
The guy who love you, while really miss you, he will want to buy a bunch of rose and wait you stupidly under your apartment, but he never knows, what he bought is daisy, but doesn't matter, because in his heart, that's roses.
Gals in crush, love, do you think the guy who's beside you do really love you? if yes, wish you have the happiest day ever after.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
A great lesson on LOVE
When u think of your past love, u may view it as a failure. But when u finds a new love, u view the past as a teacher.
In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost. What is important is u known when to hold on and when to let go!
U know u really love someone when u want him or her to be happy even if his or her happiness means that u are not part of it.
Everything happens for the best. If the person u love doesn’t love u back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for u will never know unless u give it a try. U will never love a person u love unless u risk for love.
Love strikes in hurting. If u don’t get hurt, u don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time.
Though the hurting is still there to test u, to help u grow. Don’t find love, let love find u. That is why it is called falling in love because u doesn’t force you to fall. You just fall.
U cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If u wants to go on, then u has to leave the past as u-turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.
The greatest irony of love is letting go when u need to hold on and holding on when u need to let go.
We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw u the first time.
To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self. To love is to risk not to be loved in return.How to define love; fall but not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire u and give u joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give u joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him or her the freedom to find his or her way, whether it lead towards u or away from u.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only then u will experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.Only love can hurt your heart, fill u with desire and tear u apart.
Only love can make u cry and only love knows why. If u are not ready to cry, if u are not ready to take the risk, if u are not ready to feel the pain, then u are not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that is why it is called falling in love.
Whatever happened, don’t give up! It is just a trial. Have faith in yourself and cheer up. When u decides to love, allow it to grow. When u promise to love, refuse it to die!
In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost. What is important is u known when to hold on and when to let go!
U know u really love someone when u want him or her to be happy even if his or her happiness means that u are not part of it.
Everything happens for the best. If the person u love doesn’t love u back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for u will never know unless u give it a try. U will never love a person u love unless u risk for love.
Love strikes in hurting. If u don’t get hurt, u don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time.
Though the hurting is still there to test u, to help u grow. Don’t find love, let love find u. That is why it is called falling in love because u doesn’t force you to fall. You just fall.
U cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If u wants to go on, then u has to leave the past as u-turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.
The greatest irony of love is letting go when u need to hold on and holding on when u need to let go.
We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw u the first time.
To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self. To love is to risk not to be loved in return.How to define love; fall but not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire u and give u joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give u joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him or her the freedom to find his or her way, whether it lead towards u or away from u.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only then u will experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.Only love can hurt your heart, fill u with desire and tear u apart.
Only love can make u cry and only love knows why. If u are not ready to cry, if u are not ready to take the risk, if u are not ready to feel the pain, then u are not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that is why it is called falling in love.
Whatever happened, don’t give up! It is just a trial. Have faith in yourself and cheer up. When u decides to love, allow it to grow. When u promise to love, refuse it to die!
Monday, June 18, 2007
Confusing English
Something to ponder upon......
If FedEx and UPS were to merge, would they call it FedUP?
Do Lipton Tea employees take coffee breaks?
If olive oil comes from olives, where does! baby oil come from?
If people from Poland are called Poles, why aren't people from Holland called Holes?
Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy adultery?
Why the man who invests all your money called a broker?
If horrific means to make horrible, does terrific mean to make terrible?
Why is it called building when it is already built?
If a book about failures doesn't sell, is it a success?
If you're not supposed to drink and drive, then why do bars have parking lots?
If you take an Oriental person and spin him around several times, does he become disoriented?
If vegetarians eat vegetables, what do humanitarians eat? Human
If working hours are meant for working, then why are you reading this!!!
If FedEx and UPS were to merge, would they call it FedUP?
Do Lipton Tea employees take coffee breaks?
If olive oil comes from olives, where does! baby oil come from?
If people from Poland are called Poles, why aren't people from Holland called Holes?
Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy adultery?
Why the man who invests all your money called a broker?
If horrific means to make horrible, does terrific mean to make terrible?
Why is it called building when it is already built?
If a book about failures doesn't sell, is it a success?
If you're not supposed to drink and drive, then why do bars have parking lots?
If you take an Oriental person and spin him around several times, does he become disoriented?
If vegetarians eat vegetables, what do humanitarians eat? Human
If working hours are meant for working, then why are you reading this!!!
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
